Two Months Old: November 19, 2012

**I wrote this post a while back, but am finally getting around to publishing it!

Two Months Old

November 19, 2012

Your Monthly Stats

Height:  24.5 inches  (98%ile)
Weight: 13 pounds, 14 oz.  (87%ile)
Head Circumference:  40 cm (81%ile)
Hair: blond fuzz
Eyes: SO blue, and I hope they stay that way.
Diapers: Size 1's--but, these probably won't last too long!

Clothes:
You've outgrown most 0-3 month clothes, and we've moved into a lot of 3 month or 3-6 month clothes.  Most sleepers with footies need to be 3-6 months, because your feet are so big! Yes, I know that you are only two months old.  You're a BIG boy!

Eating:
You are a champ.  You're eating every 2-3 hours, and I'm still exclusively breastfeeding.  You take a bottle about once a week or so from Daddy.  Sometimes Mommy even gets to sleep in a little in the morning when Daddy gives you a bottle.  What a treat!

Likes:
*waking up in the morning and giving LOTS of smiles.  You love to hang out on the changing table in the morning--looking around and smiling at Mommy or Daddy.  You especially love to be naked.  Typical boy.
*the SnuggaBunny swing.  You take lots of mini-naps in your swing in the mornings.
*naps with Mommy on the couch--It's the only way you will sleep.
*being in the carseat.  We take you to restaurants, and you usually sleep right through the meal in your carseat.

Dislikes:
*being flat on your back (You hate the pack & play, and we really haven't even tried you in your crib yet.)
*sleep.  You fight it all of the time.  You just don't want to miss anything.  At night, you're starting to sleep for about 2 hours at a time, but will only sleep in the bouncing seat that is on an incline.  This is mostly due to your reflux.  You still want to wake up to eat every two hours.
*shots.  You had your 2-month old well checkup this week along with your first set of shots.  It was THE. SADDEST. THING. EVER.  You held my hand during the shots, and screamed with real tears.  But, guess what?  Mommy cried more than you did though. The nurse said that lots of mommies do.  It just made me so sad to see you in pain.  It was the worst.  I am dreading the next set of shots.

Social Skills: 
We are so lucky to have lots of friends with babies around the same age as you.  A few times a week, we meet your friends for breakfast, playdates at the park, or at our Babysteps class at the hospital. I'm trying to find a "Mommy and Me" yoga class for us to join too.


Strength. 
You've always held your head up really well--from Day 1.  You're getting much stronger every day though.  You like to sit on our laps and look around at what's going on. You've even started to push up on your legs when we hold you up.  Maybe soon we will try you out in the Bumbo seat.  I think you could probably hold yourself up.

Dear Little Man,
        You have grown and changed so much this month.  Looking back at your one month pictures, I can't believe how skinny you once were.  In the past month, you have started to get chunky, and I LOVE it.  There is nothing cuter than roly-poly chunky baby thighs.  You've definitely starting to show your personality, and I"m so excited that you're a "happier" baby now.  Since we started giving you medicine to control your acid reflux, it seems like you're so much more content and relaxed.  You smile all of the time and love to laugh at Mommy when I kiss your tummy.  Daddy likes to spend time snuggling with you in the morning too when we wake him up.  We're always awake before he is!  We've been very busy this month.  During the week, we have playdates with all of your friends, go to our Babysteps class every Thursday, and visit Lulu and Pops.  On the weekends, we try to do things as a family (shopping, taking walks, or playing at home).  Soon, we'll be visiting your Grandma and Bup for Thanksgiving.  It will be your second trip to Melrose, the town where your Daddy grew up. We went there once this month during Hurricane Sandy, because we lost power at our house.  It was a fun, impromptu trip, and I know that Grandma and Bup loved visiting with you.

You're our sweet Baby Max.  We like to call you silly names like--
Maxwell Mouse
Mr. Mouse
Lovebug
Little Man
Big Guy
SnuggleBunny
Maximus (Pops' name for you)
Maxie (not my favorite, but it's what Lulu calls you!)

We love you so much, Max.  Can't wait to see what the next month brings!

Love, Mommy

Yes, I am still here!

Obviously I am way overdue with posting.  We've been spending lots of time with family and friends celebrating the holidays.  We had a wonderful Christmas and are continuing the celebration with my in-laws this weekend.

And I'm sure you have noticed that my blog is getting a much-needed facelift.  I owe a HUGE thank-you to my sweet friend Dani for redesigning my blog and making it look oh SO pretty.  I'd been having trouble with uploading pictures on Blogger, because I was out of space.  But now that problem is fixed, so I can't wait to start sharing with you again.  I have lots of blogging goals for 2013---more to come on that soon!  Here are a few pictures to get you caught up on what we've been doing.

Max helped decorate with Christmas lights.

Checking out the pretty Christmas tree--He was mesmerized at first.  

Lots of smiling while watching Elf... "Smiling's my favorite".

Where's Waldo???

I found him!

Have a great weekend, and for those of you in the northeast---stay warm inside during the "blizzard" heading our way tomorrow.  Can't wait to cozy up with a cup of something warm and my little snuggle bunny!

NewMama--Women Connect '12

Today, I am linking up with Becky over at From Mrs. to Mama in her project to connect women in the blogging world.  Even though I started blogging to stay in touch with my own friends and family, I've found that one of my favorite parts of blogging is getting to know strangers who are going through the same life experiences as me.  It's amazing how people are sharing some of the same thoughts and experiences around the world.  I'm excited to find even more of these bloggy friends through this link-up.

So? The directions for the link-up? Why, yes, of course...... but, They are SIMPLE! Just WRITE! You write a post that tells us who you are {without you telling us literally who you are}. Tell us more than just the basics. Share with us a story. Open up. Tell us what is meaningful to you. Reel us in. Make us want to stay. Be real. Be raw.  Be you.

So, how do I define myself?  The definition has surely changed over the last year.  A year ago, I would've said...I'm a 2nd grade teacher.  Now, don't get me wrong.  Being a teacher was an incredible life experience, filled with lifelong memories of students who have taught me far more than I could ever teach them.  But since then, a lot has changed.  

In August 2011, my hubby and I made a big life decision to move back to NJ (where I grew up) to start our family.  Shortly after buying a home that we love, we found out that we were expecting our first child.  Life changed in that very instant.  I will NEVER be the same.   And I am so thankful for that.  

During my pregnancy, many of you followed along as I blogged about the changes that happened each week.  I loved seeing the differences in my chalkboard pictures each week.  It still amazes me how your body can change with a pregnancy.  What an amazing thing.  It was great to get words of encouragement from all of ya'll out there, and I'm still surprised at how many followers I accumulated over the year.  
On September 19th, our lives were changed forever when our little Maxwell was born.  (We call him Max, little man, buddy, peanut, and Maxwell Mouse.   Anybody remember the book, Maxwell Mouse?  I loved it as a kid, and still remember my dad reading it to us all of the time.)  From that day on, I no longer defined myself as "a teacher".  Instead, I'm now a mom.  Since he was born I have been pretty absent from the blogging world.  I still find time to read many of your blogs on a daily basis--usually while nursing Max.  When your kid eats 12 times a day, it gives you time to read a lot of blog posts on your phone.  However, it's not so easy to make comments or write posts on my own blog.  But, I'm not going to apologize for that.  Being with Max is my priority, and if that means that laundry, cooking, and blogging have gone to the wayside for a while, well....that's how it is. 

So, I have been trying to navigate this new role of Mommy over the past two months.  There have been trying times of frustration, worry, and anxiety about whether I am "doing it right".  So, here is where I get brutally honest with you.  I always thought that becoming a mom would come naturally "easy" to me.  Being a teacher did.  I'm the oldest of five kids.  I've always been around children.  But, this is different.  This is really hard.  (Don't worry, Mom.  I don't have postpartum depression...just being real here.) 
Having someone depend on you for everything, and not always knowing how to help them is heartbreaking.  Max was diagnosed with colic when he was 3 weeks old.  He would scream for hours each evening and sleep only minutes some nights. He rarely napped during the day.  I would talk to friends who had also recently had babies, and their babies were only awake for a couple of hours a day.  Max would only sleep on top of my chest--and no one but me could calm him down most of the time.  As nice as it is to be "needed" as Mommy, everybody needs a break.  Luckily, we have family nearby and my hubby JB did as much as he could to help.  At 7 weeks old, I knew that something else was wrong.  He was spitting up a lot more and seemed to be gagging when we laid him down after eating.  I called the doctor, and he was diagnosed with reflux.  Since then, he's been taking Zantac, and it really seems to be helping.  He's much happier during the day, sleeping more often and for longer stretches, and he doesn't seem to be in constant pain.  He's still fussy and gassy at night , but he's such a happier baby overall now.  This makes his mama oh so much happier.  So, there you have it.  I admit it.   Motherhood didn't come naturally or easily to me.  Everyday I am challenged by something.  But, the times of excitement and awe of watching Max do something for the first time far outweighs the challenges.  There are so many times a day that I say, "I just love him so much.  I don't remember life before him."  I love being a new mom, and I feel so lucky to be able to stay at home with my little munchkin.  
Reading blogs of other new moms has helped to give me suggestions and encouragement to get through the first rough moments of motherhood.  So, that's who I am.  Now I am ready to take on this new role as a mommy, and I hope you'll follow me on this crazy journey.  Stop by and say hello--I'd love to follow you too!

 

One Month Old

Obviously things have been a little crazy, and I haven't written a blog post in forever.  So, I'm really hoping that some of you are still following!  Being a mommy is THE BEST job in the world, and I cannot get enough of our sweet Max.  He changes so much every day.  Looking back at these one month old pictures, I can't get over how different he looks now.  More and more I am seeing features of JB and I in his sweet little face.  I think he is just perfect--although I may be a little biased.  More to come soon on our adventures with Max.  Enjoy!

P.S.  How cute are these Babylegs legwarmers??  Love them!